okay so i just bought 5/8ths 3 days ago, and i assumed since my ears were getting so used to my 1/2 inches ive had for so long that they were falling out all the time that maybe it would be okay to skip 9/16 since they're hard to find arround here unless i drive a half an hour. well that didnt work, it just aggitated my ear and i decided id give it a break, then later that night i tried again.... same results and then i added some tape to my earings which was a decent ammount so they fit snug, but my left ear that i tried putting the jewelry into probably tore a little bit so now its pussing and all.... but how long should i wait for this to heal and everything before i put more tape on and is there any ways besides scalpeling and reconstruction to fix my minor blowouts, like i said its sticking out just a little bit, but i fear by 1" it will be gross, its getting worse with every size beyond 1/2". will saline soaks get them back to normal? (infection and blowout)