Print Page | Close Window

My sons and their penis piercings...

Printed From: BodyMod.org
Category: Body Mods
Forum Name: Piercings
Forum Discription: Stories, studio suggestions, questions, etc.
URL: http://www.bodymod.org/forum/forum_posts.asp?TID=20863
Printed Date: August/03/2020 at 8:34pm


Topic: My sons and their penis piercings...
Posted By: mike1970
Subject: My sons and their penis piercings...
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 4:52am
I'm 41, single father (my wife died 3 years ago) and I have three sons aged 16, almost 18 and 22. I have open relationships with them. They know they can always trust me and we have no secrets. My oldest son is gay. I have also some tattoo's (something like 'half body' tribal) and piercings (eyebrow, tongue, nipple, penis).

One day I just came back from the supermarket and wanted to check on my son (almost 18) so i went to his room. He was sleeping nude but something shiny was under the waist and i looked he had his penis pierced! I also saw he had a tattoo above his right nipple and he had his left nipple pierced. He also turned onto his back when I saw he had another tattoo on his back. Now I have nothing against tattoo's and piercings as I find them quite ok. But my son is 17! Now what should I do? He is very muscular guy, 7 foot and is basically muscle. I want to ask does he have a right to get this done?

We have renovated our house few days later and my youngest son was staying in the room with his older brothers. Couple of nights ago my oldest son was about to go to bed, so he took his boxers off since he slept nude (all my sons and I sleep naked). He went to lie down on the bed, then my youngest son noticed that his oldest brother had an erection and he saw right away that his penis was pierced since there was a silver stud at the tip. He was surprised to see something like that and he was asking his oldest brother about it, and he showed him where the piercing was and how it went through. As he was showing it to him he also noticed his brother had a tattoo of some kind of language on the side of his penis that ran along the length of it. He showed it to my second son (almost 18) as well when he came in, he said that his penis is also pierced (I just knew about it for few days).

Now, I knew that my oldest son has his penis pierced, because he told me about it and I saw it in locker room. I didn't know before that my secon son (almost 18) has also penis piercing. Yesterday, my third son (16) asked me if it was ok to get piercing on his penis. He said that his brothers said it was ok, and he'd already seen it in school locker room. Isn't it dangerous to get this stuff done on a young guys penis? Is he even allowed to have those done, since he's only 16? Should I let him get pierced? Is that really so popular piercing nowadays or are my sons strange?



Replies:
Posted By: bondagekitten
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 5:05am
in most countries getting that done under 18 is illegal even if on someone who is mature for their age. I don't know what harm it may do as I am not a pro or done any research into male genital piercings.

I got my first hood piercing done when I was 15. I live in Scotland and back then I had to sign a waiver stating I was 16 or older and as I was passing for 18 easily then my piercer took my word which I now feel very guilty for as she could have been prosecuted for it.


-------------
"Take me as I am or not at all" - Ginger (from The Wildhearts)


Posted By: hellodave
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 11:26am
Is it me, or did that story sound somewhat creepy and incestuous?
But yeah, tell him to wait 'til he's 18...


-------------
"Drink plenty of whisky and you'll live as long as me!" - Frank Smith, 1910-2006.


Posted By: MontanaPiercer
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 12:09pm
Originally posted by hellodave

Is it me, or did that story sound somewhat creepy and incestuous?


Yeah, a little... Crazy

In most states, minors must have a parent's consent. My state requires it in writing, and mandates that the parent be physically present during the procedure.


-------------
"A word to the wise isn't necessary -- it's the stupid ones that need the advice." Bill Cosby


Posted By: mspiggy
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 12:12pm
Originally posted by hellodave

Is it me, or did that story sound somewhat creepy and incestuous?But yeah, tell him to wait 'til he's 18...


My thoughts exactly, both points!

-------------
Tee/Piercer/Charlotte,NC




Keep it dry, keep it still, keep it clean


Posted By: standingtyping
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 2:23pm
c
r
e
e
p
y
.
.
.
 

"Total Mods: 0

Joined: Today
Posts: 1"

did he join just to talk about his family wangs?



-------------
"One day we will be the most awesome crazy cat ladies EVER...
people will know us."


Posted By: norrisal08
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 2:26pm
wow... that story was ridiculous


Posted By: merrry
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 3:49pm
The OP seems to be the strange one...Eye-Popping


-------------
AKA: The Queen Of Hugs, Naughty Girl Extraordinaire, Merrrypoppin, Merrry Contrary and Sunshine. I'm also Proud To Be A Persnickety Bitch!


Posted By: tattooedtrish
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 4:47pm
He seems to be looking for advice.. he posted it on at least one other piercing forum I'm on as well.

-------------
My avatar (my 4th suspension) thanks to The Holy mackerel in St. Paul, Minnesota.


Posted By: zobro
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 5:12pm
Nothing

"... are my sons strange?"

I would be more inclined to say your family is strange.  I find it especially odd that you were staring at your nude, sleeping son long enough for him to roll over...


Posted By: sweetsugar
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 5:46pm
The op is creeping me out. Since when does a family look at each others genitals? Well, not mine, lol!


Posted By: Cale
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 6:31pm
I don't think he's meant anything bad by posting this. He was just looking for advice. Many people that have kids who are older (and similar ages to the MANY of the people on this forum) do not understand modification very well and it is completely reasonable to ask about it and educate yourself about what your kids are doing to themselves. There is nothing wrong with genital piercings. Many people have them, and many people are curious about them. Little brothers look up to big brothers so what is so wrong with the younger brother seeing it and wondering about it?


-------------
Miss Cale
True Blue Tattoo ~ 303-989-6824
305 S Kipling St, Lakewood, CO 80226
http://www.facebook.com/piercingbymisscale - facebook.


Posted By: sweetsugar
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 6:36pm
Originally posted by Cale

I don't think he's meant anything bad by posting this. He was just looking for advice. Many people that have kids who are older (and similar ages to the MANY of the people on this forum) do not understand modification very well and it is completely reasonable to ask about it and educate yourself about what your kids are doing to themselves. There is nothing wrong with genital piercings. Many people have them, and many people are curious about them. Little brothers look up to big brothers so what is so wrong with the younger brother seeing it and wondering about it?

Well, when you put it that way, it does make more sense! :)


Posted By: JClaude
Date Posted: September/17/2011 at 11:20pm
Originally posted by Cale

I don't think he's meant anything bad by posting this. He was just looking for advice. Many people that have kids who are older (and similar ages to the MANY of the people on this forum) do not understand modification very well and it is completely reasonable to ask about it and educate yourself about what your kids are doing to themselves. There is nothing wrong with genital piercings. Many people have them, and many people are curious about them. Little brothers look up to big brothers so what is so wrong with the younger brother seeing it and wondering about it?


I think you are thinking, that those who think there is something strange here, is because of the piercings and related questions. I will jump on that grenade and say I think the creepiness from this post is that there are too many daddy/son/penis/naked references and with way TMI in this story .. I think


-------------
peRsOnal CreAtiVe

Reason #7 For Not Getting a Tattoo:
People will know you are running your own life, instead of listening to them!
"Sailor Jerry Collins, tattoo artist."

We are the beautiful freaks!


Posted By: standingtyping
Date Posted: September/18/2011 at 12:13am
Originally posted by JClaude



that there are too many daddy/son/penis/naked references


exactly that^^


-------------
"One day we will be the most awesome crazy cat ladies EVER...
people will know us."


Posted By: metalbabe
Date Posted: September/18/2011 at 1:22am
eh, i guess it is somewhat odd, but I really don't think we have the right to judge. It is not unusual for mothers to see their daughters topless, for example, if not naked. So why is it unusual for a father to see his sons naked?

He explained they are very open - some families are like that and we have no right to judge that.

To get back on topic - genital piercings are usually 18+ - for the simple reason that piercing minors in their private regions can very easily be seen as minor abuse. So even if there weren't laws forbidding such piercings on minors, most piercers would still refuse to carry them out.


-------------

Perplexing people since 1986


Posted By: Keiran1980
Date Posted: September/18/2011 at 4:15am
In the UK the legal age for genital piercings is 16*. However most shops have an 18+ policy for genital piercings.


* The age when people can marry, join the army and have kids but not smoke, drink or buy porno.


-------------
"Everyone is from somewhere.
Even if you've never been there." - Ian Anderson


Posted By: angelfetus
Date Posted: September/18/2011 at 2:39pm
see i thought it was a bit Overly close as i was reading it, but who am i to pass judgement.... but the point where one son had an erection and was happy to show it off, is a little weird, even for a close family!

That being said, on the subject, like Keiran said, over here the 'legal' age is 16.....obviously it varies a great deal.


Posted By: Cale
Date Posted: September/18/2011 at 6:33pm
Some parents sleep with their children in their bed up until they turn into teenagers. Does that seem creepy or weird? I'm sure they see each other genitals all the time. It's not a big deal to them, until perhaps they start talking to others about it. Couldn't that be the case here?

Also, kids are stupid. "Pew pew, look at my erection with a piercing!!" I'm not trying to say the guy is right (or wrong), I just thought it strange how barely anyone answered the question and instead just jumped all over him for being a single dad who lives with three boys, two of which have genital piercings. Ah well.


-------------
Miss Cale
True Blue Tattoo ~ 303-989-6824
305 S Kipling St, Lakewood, CO 80226
http://www.facebook.com/piercingbymisscale - facebook.


Posted By: JClaude
Date Posted: September/18/2011 at 8:09pm
Originally posted by Cale

Some parents sleep with their children in their bed up until they turn into teenagers. Does that seem creepy or weird? I'm sure they see each other genitals all the time. It's not a big deal to them, until perhaps they start talking to others about it. Couldn't that be the case here?

Also, kids are stupid. "Pew pew, look at my erection with a piercing!!" I'm not trying to say the guy is right (or wrong), I just thought it strange how barely anyone answered the question and instead just jumped all over him for being a single dad who lives with three boys, two of which have genital piercings. Ah well.


NO ONE jumped all over him for being a single dad who lives with three boys, again, that was not it!!

-------------
peRsOnal CreAtiVe

Reason #7 For Not Getting a Tattoo:
People will know you are running your own life, instead of listening to them!
"Sailor Jerry Collins, tattoo artist."

We are the beautiful freaks!


Posted By: evalution
Date Posted: September/18/2011 at 8:13pm
i have a vague memory of a very similar post a year or 2 ago in which the initial poster never responded again.


Posted By: INKLIZRD
Date Posted: September/19/2011 at 12:04am
unusual family ...

***QUOTE*** Cale ... " Also, kids are stupid. "Pew pew, look at my erection with a piercing!!"

assuming these are to be gun shots ... can I use this statement next time I am caught naked in public ???

-------------


Posted By: Keiran1980
Date Posted: September/19/2011 at 3:02pm
Originally posted by INKLIZRD

can I use this statement next time I am caught naked in public ???


Actually a new law was passed - now you have to make that statement.


-------------
"Everyone is from somewhere.
Even if you've never been there." - Ian Anderson


Posted By: CheapPerfume
Date Posted: September/19/2011 at 3:59pm
I didn't think most "legit" shops did genital piercings on people under 18 anyway. Not just due to the whole being a minor thing, but because sometimes people are still maturing physically at that age?


Posted By: angelfetus
Date Posted: September/20/2011 at 5:41am
Another thing i'd like to add to this....seeing as its causing people to kick off at each other ''dont judge etc''

the guy said his 16 yr old son saw his older brother had a piercing and was intruigued....

now he also stated they have a 'close relationship' and that he himself has a genital piercing.....

now i know i have seen my father naked plenty...and if so close, said son would have seen his fathers piercing years ago.... so yeah. bollocks to this tale.


Posted By: snowangel
Date Posted: September/21/2011 at 9:51pm
Never mind whether it's normal to want that pierced. If normal was all that mattered this forum wouldn't exist.

This is why good shops don't do those piercings on kids, parent's permission given or otherwise. They probably aren't ready to take good care of a piercing there if they are impatient enough to let the sleazy place in town -near- their junk. If I had a penis to get pierced, I would insist on going to the best place in the area if not for the next few hundred miles. Explain to your boys that they only get one penis and should wait to be able to go somewhere good that knows what they're doing.


Posted By: abcashleyd
Date Posted: October/04/2011 at 1:45pm
In most places it's illegal to pierce private areas of a mino or preform a piercings where those parts are visible. Even with parental consent. However, I think your 16 year old just wants it because his older brothers have it and he's trying to fit in with them. Smile


Posted By: TattooBox
Date Posted: October/07/2011 at 6:30pm
I think it's a gay idiot telling his fantasies. I don't think any tattoo studio would perform genital tattoo on underage. In any country of the world it's rape-torture-barbarity, and you face jail for that.

Even a guy like me, quite open minded for any kind of bullshit (that is I tattoo penises, I tattoo underage with parents being there, I even don't have problems to do facial tattoos on underage with parental consent) would never do that, and I have some kind of world reputation of really doing ANY bullshit.

In 99.999% of cases, when I don't do it, nobody does it. Believe me.

So.
Almost nobody tattoos underage (even here in Belgium where it's legal).
Almost nobody tattoos penises.
Almost nobody pierces genital underage.
Almost nobody shows his penis to family members.

On the other hand, the web is packed with masturbating motherfuckers.


-------------
When you have a arguement with an idiot, the most tangible proof that he's an idiot is his unability to leave peacefully a discussion that can obviously bring nothing.


Posted By: JClaude
Date Posted: October/07/2011 at 6:55pm
Originally posted by Cale

Also, kids are stupid. "Pew pew, look at my erection with a piercing!!"


So, you think guys walk around each others with boners and saying stupid shit?? Brother or not?? lmao

hawww girls...lol

-------------
peRsOnal CreAtiVe

Reason #7 For Not Getting a Tattoo:
People will know you are running your own life, instead of listening to them!
"Sailor Jerry Collins, tattoo artist."

We are the beautiful freaks!


Posted By: SolidOak
Date Posted: October/07/2011 at 8:05pm
Originally posted by JClaude

Originally posted by Cale

Also, kids are stupid. "Pew pew, look at my erection with a piercing!!"


So, you think guys walk around each others with boners and saying stupid shit?? Brother or not?? lmao

hawww girls...lol



Uhm, I don't even want to share some of the crazy stories from the Army when I was in Iraq...

That joke pales in comparison! hah

Long haul convoys and sleep deprivation combined with OD levels of caffeine and the random near death experiences here and there make ya do crazy stuff! Hug


Posted By: JClaude
Date Posted: October/07/2011 at 9:03pm
Originally posted by SolidOak



Originally posted by JClaude

Originally posted by Cale

Also, kids are stupid. "Pew pew, look at my erection with a piercing!!"


So, you think guys walk around each others with boners and saying stupid shit?? Brother or not?? lmao

hawww girls...lol
Uhm, I don't even want to share some of the crazy stories from the Army when I was in Iraq...That joke pales in comparison! hahLong haul convoys and sleep deprivation combined with OD levels of caffeine and the random near death experiences here and there make ya do crazy stuff! Hug



Well under such a situation, I would believe just about anything, a very close friend told me stuff from when he was in Vietnam that made my blood curl.
But I was obviously only considering "normal" circumstance :-)


-------------
peRsOnal CreAtiVe

Reason #7 For Not Getting a Tattoo:
People will know you are running your own life, instead of listening to them!
"Sailor Jerry Collins, tattoo artist."

We are the beautiful freaks!


Posted By: xjessiex
Date Posted: October/08/2011 at 3:11am
Originally posted by JClaude

Originally posted by Cale

Also, kids are stupid. "Pew pew, look at my erection with a piercing!!"


So, you think guys walk around each others with boners and saying stupid shit?? Brother or not?? lmao

hawww girls...lol


working as a live in nanny, the 4 yr old boy and 11 yr old I looked after used to have peeing contests and would run around nekkid all day (their family would go spa's where everyone was nekkid on weekends) and the mother would laugh and make jokes of how her husbbands penis size was passed down to her boys:p
I've walked in on my bro yrs ago where him and his mate were comparing penis size (a memory I've tried to wipe from my mind!) and (with me screaming for him I didn wanna know lol) my 12 yr old brother has shared stories of two of the boys in his class getting caught in the bathroom measurin their erection.....so actually, no stories of boys surprises me:pp

I have no input on underage penis piercings other then something my mother always told me- once you are 18 you are completely responsible for yourself. Until then I will not have child services at my door acusing me of bad parenting!



-------------
"I can't stand TV before breakfast."

"Dial 888…The desire to watch TV, no matter what's on it."


Posted By: Keiran1980
Date Posted: October/08/2011 at 3:52am
A friend of mine said that at the boarding school he went to there were a lot of homo-erotic contests in the dorms. 

-------------
"Everyone is from somewhere.
Even if you've never been there." - Ian Anderson


Posted By: mike1970
Date Posted: November/03/2011 at 4:27am
I have a very good relatiionship with my sons. I think he's old enough to make the decision, and I think it's great that he asked me. Before getting piercing, I educated him all about the piercing.

My 22 yr old son have PA and his nipples pierced and 18 yr old have ampallang. My youngest son two weeks ago got a PA and his nipples pierced and he said that many of his friends at school have all sorts of piercings too.

My 18 yr old son wanted a magic cross so badly, so I took him last friday to get his apadravya pierced. He yelled like a baby. After seeing a guy getting a frenum ladder at the piercer, I decided to get one too, 6 barbells 12 guage by 5/8" each were pierced to the underside of my shaft. Now I have 6 piercings on my penis, an apadravya, an ampallang, and a six rung ladder. Now all 4 of us (three sons and myself) are pierced. I've convinced them to switch from boxers to tighty whites so that the piercings are better supported.


Posted By: shenglu
Date Posted: November/08/2011 at 10:19pm
What is wrong with genital piercing. Many, many people are curious about them. Little brother, big brother, younger brother to see it, wondering what it is wrong?

-------------
http://www.meritline.com/led-flashlight---c-7832.aspx - LED Flashlights


Posted By: marcelbodymod
Date Posted: December/15/2011 at 8:28am
I had my first Genital Piercing when I was 17. I really wanted it but since the legal age in Germany is 18 I had to do it myself.
What I wanna say that if your son really wants it you might wanna go with him to make sure he doesn't gets it messed up..


Posted By: DisturbingNoise
Date Posted: December/15/2011 at 4:37pm
If it is legal for him to do it at his age then go ahead and let him get it done professionally. If not do it at home, if your that close of a family then maybe help him do it. He is a teenage boy after all so if he really wants it he is going to get it. Help him out so he doesn't end up getting it infected 'cause he used a dirty needle or something and then has to lose it.


Posted By: erinarney
Date Posted: December/15/2011 at 6:24pm
This is a matter of ethics. Yes, a penis piercing is an acceptable piercing but on a child under 18? As a professional I completely refuse to pierce genitals on minors. Always have and always will. I don't care if both parents are willing to sign, I personally feel it's absolutely inappropriate.


-------------
rdhdedstpchld


Posted By: BigMikeHOOKED
Date Posted: December/15/2011 at 6:44pm
I agree with erinarney. Not to mention that it has the potential for a piercer (at least here in the states) to open themselves up to a statuatory rape charge.

I also think its a bad idea to just throw it out there that he should do it himself if he's underage. Especially to someone who may or may not have ANY experience piercing themselves. Or have any idea how to do it right or safely. Self-piercing should only be done by someone who has done research and knows about cross contamination and BBP. As opposed to someone who sterilizes needles with alcohol or by boiling them or any other method NOT involving an autoclave or pre-sterilized equipment.



-------------
"stay true to your obsessions" V. Vale


Posted By: Keiran1980
Date Posted: December/16/2011 at 7:40am
Originally posted by mike1970

I've convinced them to switch from boxers to tighty whites so that the piercings are better supported.

What kind of gauge are they getting 00 or something? Unless you want seriously heavy jewelry it is generaly considered a bad move to move to tighter underwear than you are used to with fresh piercings as tighter underwear which will trap sweat and increase chances of infection.


-------------
"Everyone is from somewhere.
Even if you've never been there." - Ian Anderson


Posted By: BigMikeHOOKED
Date Posted: December/16/2011 at 3:59pm
I actually liked wearing briefs right after my PA piercing. The added support was, in my experience, very helpful with the first couple of days discomfort. I dont remember there being an issue with sweat. Just change your underwear every so often, which is good advice in general. haha

-------------
"stay true to your obsessions" V. Vale


Posted By: DisturbingNoise
Date Posted: December/16/2011 at 4:58pm
I was thinking about this post earlier and I was thinking you shouldn't be attacking this guy for his way of life, but now I'm not sure. Why did he tell us all of this? Why not say something like, "My 16 year old son wants a penis piercing. I don't have anything against them since I have one my self. What should I do?"  I think there is something more going on with guy. I call shenanigans.


Posted By: baxterxlt
Date Posted: December/27/2011 at 1:49pm
if he wants to get his dick pierced he will find away to do it i was 16 and pierced my own pa   then when i was 17 i did another pa and a reverse pa   my self   so if u want him to be safe and it done right id let hime otherwise it will be done without u nowing it


Posted By: KillaD
Date Posted: December/27/2011 at 4:13pm
Man talk about a sign of the times. When I was 16 I was never thinking of sticking needles through my shit or having some older god fondle my junk so HE could stick needles through my junk.

That and I had a few piercings by then and new about healing periods and the idea of being sixteen and not able to stroke it to the oldies or get some afternoon delight from the gf just was not appealing..
young-ens these days...

-------------


Posted By: metalpenis
Date Posted: March/14/2012 at 7:58am
hi Mike,

Like you I have a pierced penis, an ampallang and a appadravya.
I have a 18 year and 15 year old son and both have their penises pierced.
Eventhough I have my penis pierced I was rather shocked when My sons proudly told me they had theirs done but what can I say!


Posted By: PaulieWaulie
Date Posted: February/12/2013 at 10:26am
I don't know if this guy's a troll or not, but the basic story is not impossible: my cousin got his PA when he was 13 and his parents signed for it. AND he was constantly showing it off to people.


Posted By: Hights
Date Posted: February/19/2013 at 3:25am
I would definitely let your son do it, i got an apadravya piercing myself strait through the head and it great i really want a shaft apadravya though just behind the head


Posted By: Mlampke19
Date Posted: March/10/2013 at 6:49pm
Wish you were my dad. I had to wait to get mine. :(


Posted By: pierced_celt
Date Posted: March/10/2013 at 9:34pm
How is this thread still going, I think threads shud be killed off after 6 months of inactivity


Posted By: Mlampke19
Date Posted: March/11/2013 at 7:11pm
Haha right


Posted By: SolidOak
Date Posted: March/22/2013 at 6:48pm
Originally posted by pierced_celt

How is this thread still going, I think threads shud be killed off after 6 months of inactivity



I have a feeling the 4 people that posted before you there have the same IP address.. unfortunately I am not savvy enough to look into that type of stuff.



Print Page | Close Window